


Melissa Foster
Nov 15, 2024

Helping Your Teen Reclaim Her Confidence, Joy, and Sense of Self
At Dragonfly, our therapists offer a real, down-to-earth space where clients can feel safe — no judgment, no pressure. We focus on building a relationship based on trust and meeting individuals where they are at, so they feel truly heard and supported from the very first session.
Has your daughter been withdrawing from friends or family, skipping activities she once loved, or spending more time in her room than usual? Maybe you’ve noticed a drop in her grades, a loss of motivation, or changes in her sleep or appetite. She might say she’s “fine” when asked, but you can tell something’s not right.
Depression in teen girls doesn’t always look like sadness—it can show up as irritability, numbness, or feeling “off” without knowing why. You may be worried that she’s overwhelmed, stuck in a negative mindset, or carrying emotional pain she doesn’t know how to share.
As a parent, it’s heartbreaking to watch your daughter struggle and not know how to help.
If your teen seems to be losing interest in life, doubting her worth, or expressing hopelessness, it might be more than typical teen mood swings. The good news is that help is available—and with support, things can get better.

Unfortunately, depression is common in adolescence, especially for girls navigating big changes in identity, social roles, and expectations. Between academic pressure, friendship dynamics, social media comparisons, and the desire to fit in, it’s no wonder so many teens feel overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted.
Sometimes, teens don’t even realize they’re struggling with depression. They might brush it off as being tired or “not in the mood.” And because girls are often expected to be emotionally attuned or resilient, they may feel pressure to hide what they’re going through. But depression isn’t a character flaw—it’s a real emotional struggle that deserves care and attention.
With the right support, adolescent girls can learn to understand their emotions, feel less alone, and start believing in themselves again. Therapy provides a place to unpack what’s going on and find a way forward.
At Dragonfly, we specialize in working with teen girls who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or lost in their own thoughts. Therapy can help your teen put words to what she’s feeling, explore the root of her struggles, and build healthy coping strategies for day-to-day life.
Our approach begins by creating a safe, judgment-free space where your daughter can be herself.
We know how important it is to build trust—especially with teens who might be unsure or guarded. Our
therapists are warm, relatable, and skilled at gently inviting teens to open up at their own pace.
Once your teen feels safe, we begin to explore the challenges she’s facing. That might include low
self-esteem, perfectionism, social anxiety, academic stress, identity concerns, or difficulty managing
emotions. We draw from evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT),
mindfulness, self-compassion work, and emotion regulation skills—always tailored to your teen’s unique
needs.
We’re not here to “fix” your teen—we’re here to help her remember who she is underneath the self-doubt
and stress. With experience in working with anxiety, depression, and identity development in teens, we
offer a space where girls can feel heard, supported, and empowered to grow.
Even when things feel heavy, there is always hope.
We help your teen reconnect with her strengths, values, and sense of self.
Let’s start with a free 20-minute phone consult.
No pressure, no commitment—just a chance to talk, ask questions, and see if we’re the right fit.

Parents will definitely be involved to some extent. However, the content of the sessions will remain confidential to help build your teens trust. Teens need a sense of privacy in therapy to open up, but we keep parents informed of any safety concerns and any strategies that could help at home. We also welcome parent sessions if needed.
(Offering In-Person or Virtually Counselling Services in the Calgary Area)
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1407 10 St SW, Calgary, AB T2R 1E7